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20 Jul, 2008

men and women, who forgives and who forgets

Posted by: his royal highness In: life, thoughts & ramblings

men forget but never forgive.

women forgive but never forget

is the statement/quote true? perhaps it is, perhaps it’s not. but the quote has been up pondering his minds whenever he witness any arguments taking place from around…

whenever arguments and squabbles start, the old and ancient forgiven histories almost always get brought up call up to attention. those forgiven stuffs gets racked up and placed on the front lines. so what’s the point of forgiven? this is what men and women both do.. thought it probably occurs slightly more for some…

whatever the case, his highness like the line forget, but never forgive part better. after all, if we never forgive in the first place, it is our RIGHT to bring up the old news in an argument… though it’s never good to do so… because,

in an argument should always been focus on the current issue at hand, and not on past differences.

on the other hand, men really like to forget, and never forgive. they’ll let it drop, dismissed it but they never truly forgive even if they did let it die down. unless.. unless they said so from the hearth.

we might forget the harm you did to us, we will never forgive you until we say so.

his highness? he forgive those who deserved it, but he has an excellent memory. he hardly forget.

bring up an old squabble? nah… stay focus only on the argument at hand. then again, there never was much squabbles worth happening… neither was it a lot…

ouch.

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When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping.

Men invade another country.

It’s a whole different way of thinking.”

- via elayne boosiers

men are warlike.

period.

his highness? he digs himself a nice cosy cave!

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4 Responses to "men and women, who forgives and who forgets"

1 | Pegan

July 21st, 2008 at 10:09

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hey Cave man !!

2 | Pegan

July 22nd, 2008 at 13:40

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I remember once i was attending my cell group (christian small group in which members discuss about issues in life) Then the cell leader asked.. can you all share about incidents when you forgive someone and feel good after it.. Then everyone was enthu and shared.. but someone suddenly asked.. if we forgive, why do we still remember? Alot of times, people like to say “oh she did this this this.. but i’ve forgiven her.” It’s somewhat like putting yourself in a higher position coz you’re able to forgive.

i think if one can forget.. then it is truly forgiving.. coz it is then that one can totally take that issue off the chest..

3 | his royal highness

July 23rd, 2008 at 2:38

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so your stand means one can forgive and forget, until someone else reminds them about it.

but if it’s a deep wound, one could forgive… but never forget what was done…

hmmm… i’m not a saint like you leh poke… i’m evil… i forget but do not forgive unless i do clearly state i forgive one…

hmm.. maybe i’ll go start an argument and analyze that! LOL! let’s make this topic a thesis…!

4 | friends | ~ we are chiwasu ?!

July 23rd, 2008 at 3:27

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[...] sticking out of his back. he refuses to remove it. it helps him to remember. and that’s why, he can forget, but never forgive (because he was reminded of it recently). it has left a [...]

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