~ we are chiwasu ?!

blogging requires some substantial focusing. that’s why blogging in the midst of the night, where everyone is dead to world sleeping gives the best results, insights and fruitful thoughts…

still, blogging when the brain yields to complete one more quest in a game, blogging when chatting with another for module planning, blogging when one still have messy thoughts from certain strange dreams in the night, blogging when one is listening to some inspiring mandarin pop, blogging when one is chomping on a tart, blogging when one is sipping on a drink… that’s new! maybe not… maybe it IS.

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tip me NOT

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The Sea Folk believed in hierarchy as they did in the seas, and they knew a woman and her husband might be promoted one past the other many times in their lives. Their marriage rites took that into account. Whoever had the right to command in public, must obey in private. — ‘The Path of Daggers’, Book Eight of “The Wheel of Time” - Robert Jordan

Whoever had the right to command in public, must obey in private. now, that’s interesting truth. yet, not many men understand that… or rather, not many women know that too…

it’s funny how men and women need to read a book to drill that thought in their mind. it’s funny how people in the medieval ages are way smarter than men and women in our age. strange, but true. hence, to have a happy life, tip the balance NOT. however, men and women our age aimed to be the master in both the public and private… and guess what… that makes the lawyers really really happy.

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so next time you (yes, that means YOU) think are king somewhere… you’re a slave in another. if you’re with your spouse, and you’re acting like mr BIG. everyone who reads ~ we are chiwasu ?! will know your spouse is ms BIGGER when no one else is around. well… if you are mr i-am-fine with anything…. we know you are KING when there’s just two of you… maybe not…

Vs.

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king of hearts: honey, i’m KING!

queen of hearts: and the king will be sleeping in the couch tonight

fruit for thought: we all know our MM Lee is KING in the international platform… does that means his wife is the QUEEN when they are at home?

mutual respect is the key. else, engage a lawyer.

i'm happy when i'm busy

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